well... I mean u have access to the server list. As far as I'm aware there is a way to check if people have been on at all. If their name is dimmed out then they have never been on the server.
also Imma make it canon that I'm somewhat of a shapeshifter since I change skin so much. The 'main' form would be a basically humanoid ender dragon. that's if u want to draw me at any point.
I'm fine with friend being dead. but if u want to cut it we can. I was just thinking it could be used as good plot. (We cut the cat murder but keep friend being dead, that's my idea.)