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You don't have anything to be sorry for. And it's hardly sensitivity when you're still in that situation or headspace...
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Couldn't you have picked another target? Just... I don't even know. Some are not in the right situation to not take things personally
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And so you tear into other people?
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Also what the heck?! Why would you say something like that, @Baliye? (And where's the line between RP and conversation here? Please tell me I'm having a R/Whoooosh moment)
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What kind of witchcraft is this?!
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I'm that slightly annoying wanderer
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who am i gonna have to throw into the sun
Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
I'd say something, but then again, I'm masquerading as a cat -
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They say you never lose them, but despite herpes hell as a kid, I haven't had any in 10 years now. Maybe there's hoping? (But I also had a weird form in my mouth...)
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
I don't know whether they're a terror to anyone, as I'm neither a trans person nor have met someone using them. Personally, I'l call people whatever they want me to. Even if you assume that people are "deluded "as some conservatives do, you're not going to help someone's alienation "problem" by being an moron and alienating them further. If you assume that there's more than two genders anyway (I don't see why there couldn't be a midway, no way, whatever) you end at the same place. Or that's my understanding of it... there's just a lot more harm to do by being wrong and a douche. So Bigotry doesn't make sense here, no matter your stance. Though I suppose I'd still slip into somewhat offensive themes without knowing it. Or have some different opinions on where the line is, but it seems so does the community. I mostly just don't know what to think. Maybe brain scans on the matter will improve and clear some issues once and for all... But I'll wait 'till then and try to improve my reasoning skills. Weeding out bad arguments and all that. -
who am i gonna have to throw into the sun
Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
But more importantly, why are you a Gourd now. Why would you and your fine plant-self define itself as a mushy, green almost-berry from hell 🧐.😭 -
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
There's thick skin and then there's "reality control". In other words, there's pain or offending someone, and there's denying their existence. They merge, but they're seperate categories. In extreme forms, imagine victims of narcissists. There's something else going on there than just hurt. Thick skin helps to a point, but there's more involved than the emotion of "I'm offended/hurt by this". Dysphoria. I guess I might feel that too if I were to lose an arm, and something on the outside moved the internal image of "body" 36 degrees to the right. The problematic part is, that in order to grow a thick skin against that, you'd have to completely ignore the validity of other's perception on a level, which will turn you into an asshole. Thick skin and being accepting-first-to-be-accepted kinda doesn't work out long term. What adds to it, is that dysphoria is traumatizing. There's a difference between pain and fear that the bad experience will happen all over again. (E.g. a soldier is not offended by war, or a survivor of domestic abuse offended by violence). Your blue hair won't do that for you, nor would them pointing it out deny that you have hair. I'm not sure if that's helpful to you, but you're mixing up causes and emotions. You can't treat all three of these the same way and expect good results. They each deserve their own strategy, but said strategies are largely incompatible, like with thick skin above. Think about it. They hear it again and again. Yet, they're still here with even more issues, instead of getting over it, like other people would. There's clearly more to it than offence or this wouldn't be the norm. Still, I'd agree that not every joke is a menace in disguise. Intent really makes a difference... -
who am i gonna have to throw into the sun
Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
Aside from zhe/they/xe... (other neutral-ish/non-standard/or non-binary variants) do people actually use these? I'm asking because I tried to google a comprehensive list with repeating ones and nothing like plant-self really comes up. Lists have drastically different ones, too. And some trans people really seem to hate them Am I missing a point there and they're supposed to not resemble each other? Or is this more of a mental exercise? -
UwU The facts that aren't real
Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to The most beautiful thing's topic in Forum Games
Renio is 2490 years old, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Especially Renio. -
Some people don't know how to deal with serious topics. Maybe they have some bias against it, or they really just feel lost. Even when they eventually listen, you can be prepared to re-explain yourself 300 times. But... you'll run into an alike issue with almost anyone. Maybe it will take time, maybe you'll never get anywhere on that level. Still, I personally don't believe that a high level of depth is possible with everyone. But when people don't have all that you're looking for, you might just have to look for the missing parts too, but somewhere else. Sometimes we can't give what others need. Sometimes we don't even notice the harm... though any future regrets of theirs won`t be useful to you right now
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So they don't really understand you?
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They're backstabbers?
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I'm going to at some point. Didn't have any weekends off yet, with all that schoolwork. Not to mention, the cinema's hours away.
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
It's 3.28 am here and I've gotten to the point of general stupidity where "headliney" doesn't seem odd anymore. Good night -
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
Then your school is full of awful people -
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
I was kidding. But unless you're missing half your face and then some, you're not going to be ugly. Or even bad looking, if you invest in the right clothing, hair and makeup. You probably look just fine and/or pretty right now -
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
I'm sure you'll be handsome naked mole rat when you've grown up -
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
I'm disappointed that I couldn't care less about romance and still get less sleep than the average person. You'd think it be good for something, but no. -
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Spacestar TheThundersuncat replied to jaxpsylla's topic in Off Topic
I've known quite some, especially now in the city. Bisexuality is supposedly much more common than one would assume