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Spacestar TheThundersuncat

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  1. 1. Reincarnation island thing. ("Whims of the random N"). Actually a really old Whims save on Grass Mingle

    2. New Game! Warriors story save

    3. New Game. A pretty damn perfect island because (1) was full. They're nice in different ways. Unknown island

    4. New Game. Some short challenge. Done and deletable. Deadly Hills

    5. New Game (so creative). Some nearly dead story save, with a lot of pretty nichelings. A damnable amount of pretty nichelings...

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  2. 20 minutes ago, Jojo said:

    Check if you have some food left out/ or rotten fruit around. In the summer we sometimes leave our fruit/ biodegradable trash outside and it attracts wasps (they never do anything really, just eat it and move though moving the trash is a little risky sometimes with them around).

    And two could just be a coincidence.

    And we had a wasp nest once in our garden. Nobody got stung by them ever. And the removal was no issue as well.

    So I hope this helps with your worries :)

     

    I shall say something controversial: I kinda like wasps (and they have just as an important role in the ecosystem as bees so there you go haters) they are the cleanup teams of nature and they also pollinate flowers.

    Seconding the nest. Ours is directly by the clothing line and they've never been aggressive. They very rarely will land on you, though. But also crawl off on a leaf happily enough 

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  3. I like pretty much every bug except dead looking spiders. One crawled on me as a kid when it clearly hung there as a corpse on the wall, and it still freaks me out. The "living dead". Likely relates to another unmentionable issue, but that's how you get a phobia

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  4. I freed a wasp just to have it follow me and nibble on a bare leg, nearly killing spacecat by cardiac arrest. They're secretly evil beneath a cute veneer

  5. So today wasn't a complete disaster... for sheer dumb luck. Though it included a two hour phone call and the end of my annual emotional breakdown, because why not. Maybe I'll even get to sleep.after.6.weeks.of.Insomnia.

    But not really. I'll have to follow a really strict study/writing plan. Not afraid of the former, but I'm awful with 10-15 page papers. 3 of them, or one modified to 4, but really 4 papers, 3 topics... and I'm allowed to plagiarize from myself, kinda. Setting a routine for that whole month will be hell-ish for a few days. No summer holidays for me. So enjoy another largely space free month, though I'll update the Alpha thread at some point

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  6. I'm not the type to sweat much. Is that part of the problem? ... My skin's ice cold even mid summer. I've even been misused as an ice-pack. Or my hands, anyway. That still sounds weird

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  7. You don't need to be happy here, all the time, or even sometimes. Even so... meeting people as a means of distraction (from yourself) is indeed unhealthy. There's the issue of the thing in itself. But you know that.

    What is actually bad, though, is that something is better than nothing at times, and relying on unsustainable coping mechanisms is the worst possible outcome. You don't have to be perfect. Not for us, not for yourself. But you need to find something you can consistently find comfort in, without the shadow of guilt. Not to stuff some hole, not to stop bleeding for just another day. It's about building a new structure, from the ground. Stop replacing proverbial tiles and get a new wall, or be done with walls and live in a tent.

    That's hard as hell.  And unhelpful, as all "find somethings" are. But you really, really need to. You can't find stability outside yourself. Not without finding it in you, and that is one awful process of set-backs and miss-steps no one can fault you for. Because, really, actually, it is all about your happiness. Please never feel bad about that. You can't change it, no one can. That's the eternal curse of being human

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