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  1. this will eventually be on tumblr but yall get 2 see em First 

    none of these have any basis in the actual text, i just thought itd be fun 

     

    OSDD Firestar (and Alters)

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    Protectors:

    Willowheart - Willowheart is a standard sized solid grey cat with long claws and green eyes. They are the primary physical protector of the system, and generally deal with Hollystrike or matters of fighting.

     Minkeyes - Minkeyes is a large cream tom with missing eyes and large scars. He is a mental Protector and general caretaker, similar to an elder but not close to being one in age. He is the fatherly figure of the system.

     

    Persecutor:

    Hollystrike - Hollystrike is an extremely large creamy white cat with yellow-orange eyes. She is the primary persecutor of the system, and is mostly a physical persecutor, causing harm to the body. She does, however, have a soft spot for Pumpkin.

     

    Little:

    Fallowkit - Fallowkit is an extremely small and young brown tabby with bright amber eyes. Curious about everything, Fallowkit acts like a very enthusiastic little kitten and doesn't deal with the body being so burly very well.

     

    Noncat:

     Pumpkin - Pumpkin is a small Robin. They are generally just an overseer, offering tips and such, but don't have a set strong role. They are often seen perched on Hollystrike in the headspace, or fumbling around in the body. Firestar refuses to eat Robins because of them.

     

    Gatekeeper:

     Emberclaw - Emberclaw is a rusty red cat with bright blue eyes, long whiskers, and a lisp. They are generally very cautious and calculating, and very diligently test every possible situation in the headspace. They monitor the front and memories (but struggle to keep Firestar from being overwhelmed with memories).

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  2. 58 minutes ago, Renio2490 said:

    so things like "Female Non-binary" and "Male Non-binary", exist right?
    I think Goggles was saying something about it

    Feminine NonBinary and Masculine NonBinary ^^
     

    Of course, these are different to Demigirl and Demiboy :) 

  3. 13 hours ago, Strayed Away Fawn said:

    From a scientific standpoint, there aren’t as many genders really only Female, Male, Both (I forgot what it was but you have both of the traits.) and non-binary. (Of course there could be more that I don’t know.)

    I- No, that's sex. 

     

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  4. 11 hours ago, Bad fawn said:

    I personally am fine with LGBTQ+ people. I don't even try to understand, because it's way too coplicated for my small brain. I just don't mind them. They're just people. Different, but still should be treated the exact same as other people.

    What does annoy me is when people list their sexuality and stuff like that on their bio. Yeah it's good to know someone's gender, but sexuality is just pointless unless it's a dating site. No one needs to know that.

    Also what's with the black/brown in the pride flag these days? Those aren't colors of the rainbow and the flag doesn't have white in it either. Isn't this just sorting people by color? Skin color really shouldn't have to matter when it comes to this stuff.

    A lot of pride flags can be used by racist communities, so the black and brown shows that the group that uses it isn't racist 

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  5. 6 hours ago, mhiahia said:

    But why do all those other pronouns exist if they don't equate gender?

    Aren't pronouns meant to show/represent your gender? Because else, why would misgendering be a thing then?

    Just trying to understand.

    Both of the responses below showcase it well- 

    6 hours ago, FAWN QUEEN !!! said:

    pronouns and gender are two completely different things, idk it's just kinda hard to explain,, some people just like having different pronouns

     

    2 hours ago, OnlySlightlyEldritchFawn said:

    I read that he/him (they/them by association?) lesbians kind of go for it, because they feel no real connection to society's expectations and views of (their) gender. So they feel alienated to the things attached to she/her.  (A kind of disphoria?)

    That makes enough sense to me, but I can't know if that's a correct understanding.

    I mean, when I was younger and into MMORPGS, I never corrected people because some treat girls in a way I did not want to be treated. So the concept of "girl/woman" within the game, did not reflect my gender, because it's fixed by rules outside of online stereotypes. He/him fit just fine within the "rules" of the game, but how people view you is never going to be who you are, and so there's this odd disconnect. Your version of "he" exists in my dictionairy as "she". Your version of "she" isn't mine. Yet I'm not hung up on gendered stuff to begin with, so there's that... "call me whatever if it helps you to see me as human". Would not apply in real life.

    I hope I'm not projecting too much. But online games are a smaller sandbox replaceable for a large one. Being "outside" the game/ruleset those who perceive you play by

    But, to explain simply, pronouns are linked to a gender, but don't equal gender

    Misgendering isn't even solely linked to pronouns, either! 

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  6. 2 hours ago, OnlySlightlyEldritchFawn said:

    Okay. Another stupid question, but how do you?

    I get the NT framework somewhat after hard work. But that's a separate framework of its own and I don't know how to work with it. What can you do to understand someone with NPD better, or don't lose things in translation? I somewhat get what not to do at times with rl exposure, in rl, but that's mostly controlling my own affect since what might be a small thing to me seems highly destabilizing to these two people in particular. Can't judge anyone on that part because I'm hyperfixated on emotions too, only it's someone's capacity for a very specific type of anger. But what do you do or really ought to know? 

    Essentially, he uses 'narcissistic' instead of manipulative- even classifying it as 'narcissistic' instead of it's true word. This is a known thing; something people call 'narcissistic abuse' (which blatantly isn't real; you don't call abuse by somebody with autism, like, autistic abuse do you?). 

    Instead of calling something narcissistic, instead just call it by what it is- manipulative, stupid, ect. 

    Another real example is the 'diagnose Trump' campaign, to... diagnose Donald with NPD. Which is stupid and ableist. 

     

    Is there anything else you want me to cover?? I don't understand the full capacity of the question (I just got back from school exams so I'm tired ^^;) 

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  7. 2 minutes ago, wikipedia (angel) said:

    https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/gallery/55884919/genders

    Most genders we learn are umbrella terms- a general term used (imagine 'nonbinary' like the term 'cat'; you don't know the specifics, but you know the general things). MOGAI offers specifics (eg quoigender being like the species's specific name). :) 

    On this, most people will be okay with telling you their umbrella terms! We often just use specifics to be like 'yes! this is who i am!'.

    https://pronoun-provider.tumblr.com/pronouns has the largest amount of pronouns, and you can understand how to use them here: 
    https://www.practicewithpronouns.com/#/?_k=sus7fo
    http://www.pronouns.failedslacker.com/

  8. 7 hours ago, mhiahia said:

    Could you give me a source where I can read about all those genders? After what I've found so far, it seems that this comes from the Facebook gender possibilities, where (according to my limited knowledge) there are multiple versions of one identity, like cis-man, cis-born man, cis boy, cis-born boy, etc.

    I really don't want to discriminate here, I'm just curious.

    https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/gallery/55884919/genders

    Most genders we learn are umbrella terms- a general term used (imagine 'nonbinary' like the term 'cat'; you don't know the specifics, but you know the general things). MOGAI offers specifics (eg quoigender being like the species's specific name). :) 

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  9. 7 hours ago, mhiahia said:

    Could someone elaborate on that, please? It's a new thing for me.

    Pronouns do not equate gender! :D 
    Just because he/him is usually used by men doesn't mean it's a male only pronoun, for example. 

  10. 2 hours ago, Strayed Away Fawn said:

    When deciding who I want to side with on politics there’s that one anti-lgbtq+ person who will make everything right. 
     

    I don’t go with them.

    Even if I don’t understand all 64 genders I support them all. I try to learn them all but I keep forgetting AAAA.

     

    And some people are trying to understand. Like I have a friend who’s as asking another Lesbian friend of mine about her sexuality (Her sister is also Bi.) It’s better to ask questions then straight up hating on someone.

     

    Also, I feel like this is the place to mention I am probably Acevauge. I know I said to Renio a looooongg time ago that I had one irl crush but that fire extinguished quickly (too where I am not sure it was even a crush, maybe a longing to be friends. Which now that I think about it, it probably was.) And I have probably suffered trauma from a lot of things way back (Recently learned my family is dysfunctional... ADHD and bullying did not help and it was mostly boys who bullied me so... Ive never felt genuine attraction.)

    See, the thing is that you're trying- 'allies' who call themselves allies without being polite/trying to understand/still being lgbtq+ phobic are not allies at all. 

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  11. 11 hours ago, ImpyFawn10 said:

    Ferret moved off towards away from RoyalClan and off towards the smells of unfamiliar places and other cats.

    The sun gleams down and his fur tips glitter and glow- almost as if they produced their own true-light, causing him to huff. 

    As if RoyalClan didn't already know... his status. The Sun's Onceborn. 

    He didn't need the other clans knowing too. 

  12. 14 minutes ago, wikipedia (angel) said:

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    Hey darlin',
    Sleeping on the blacktop
    Hey darlin',
    Running through the trees honey
    Hey darlin',
    Leaving for the next town
    Less my sense catches up with me

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    literally everybody who can fight in this lil group is blind 

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