ok go through these mods please:
1.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/bedspreads-fabric (this mod allows beds like banner shields)
2.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/secret-rooms-fabric (this mod allows secret rooms)
3.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/respawnable-pets (we shall respawn pets.)
4.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/harvest-scythes (I think it goes with the flow of orgins.)
5.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/not-enough-animations (this is a mod that makes the animations in 1st person apply to 3rd person)
6.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/give-me-hats (H A T)
7.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/true-secret-rooms ( you might like this better than secret rooms.)
8.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/bits-and-chisels (I don't think you'll like this one but you might want it for single player)
9.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/fabric-waystones (I find this mod really balanced)
10.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/dual-riders (H O N S E) (but seriously you'll like this)
11.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/damage-tilt (I would put this in the other section that only requires it on the clientside but it requires serverside)
12.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/eldritch-mobs (to make sure we don't get too op, plus it's configurable so if you don't like it as is just make it different)
13.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/wandering-collector (we could have this instead of keepinv)
14.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/on-soul-fire (soul fire now hurts more)
15.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/enhanced-attack-indicator (if this is clientside tell me)
16.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/enhanced-mushrooms-fabric (I don't know if you're okay with this one)
17.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/bosses-of-mass-destruction (these will only effect the endgame so read up. Btw I think that the dependent mods still work for 1.17)
18.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/edit-sign (QOL mod)
19.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/noexpensive(QOL mod)
20.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/invisible-frames (invis item frames now we can have cool stuff)
21.https://github.com/SFort/MC-invisstands/releases (the same but for armorstands)
22.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/toomanyorigins (orgins addon thing)
23.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/replanter (QOL mod)'
24.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/big-beacons (just read all of it it's awesome)
25.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/broken-name-tags (remember dead pets)
26.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/beenfo (you don't have to put this on the server but if you put it on the server it will be an optional mod)
27.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/libra-an-origins-addon (I don't know if you're okay with this one but you should read it)
28.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/added-origins (orgins mod)
29.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/not-forgotten (we could have this instead of the other alternative to keepinv. you should read it even if you don't want it on the server)
30.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/fleshz (I think you'll like it, but the mechanic of leather being annoying to get may be too much, so I understand if not.)
31.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/origins-extra-keybinds (for any orgins we might install that require this)
32.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/dualwielding (dual wielding, you may not want this though)
33.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/archesorigins (orgins mod)
34.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/phonos (moosic, it doesn't give a description of how it works so you'll have to look at an ingame book after downloading patchouli on a single player world. If you don't have time to test it I can do that for you)
35.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/ibarns-custom-origins-addon (I don't know if you'll like this orgins addon or not)
36.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/culinaire (a food mod that won't restore too many hunger points, it's seriously a great food mod)
37.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/lonsdaleite (a grindy netherite alternative)
38.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/mobs-attempt-parkour (mobs attempt parkour, and won't be too good at it)
39.https://www.mejoresmodsminecraft.site/en/creeper-spores-fabric-1-17/ (even more deadly creepers)
40.https://www.mejoresmodsminecraft.site/en/mo-glass-1-17/?swcfpc=1 (build with glass with glass stairs and slabs)
41.https://www.mejoresmodsminecraft.site/en/croptopia-fabric-1-17/?swcfpc=1 (another food mod, but I don't reccomend this one)
42.https://fabricmods.com/lovely-snails-mod-1-17-companion-snail/ (idk wth this is)
43.https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/techreborn ( I don't reccomend this tech mod)