"Yeah, it is," she agreed, "it's a rough world out there. The key is to know when to fight and when to hold your fire. If you join us, you won't be able to make the decision yourself anymore. And you may have to fight when you don't want to, and resist the temptation to lay in to someone who deserves it. But when you do fight, you'll have others who fight with you, who have your back, and that's vital to success."