oh my gog sry for late responce also, try posting a w/f/l on the wiki if you have an acc there (should look like- Me: error rad, Them: nm vulp, amar, desy) and theres also a poll option for making a post if youre unfamiliar
dont trust discord because scammers are everywhere and a lot of them can be very rude and smelly (not saying all of them are but ive met a few too many smellers)