icecat Posted July 5 Author Share Posted July 5 do you ever feel like if u use she/her pronouns ppl will like sexualise u alot its actually so annoying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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icecat Posted July 6 Author Share Posted July 6 oh my goodness . well so i sort of like.. well i wouldn't say came out but yeah that (never really liked the whole thing of like.. coming out and stuff ) to my cousin as as like aro/ace possibley, and the thing is he didn't believe me. he said and i quote "thats really rare don't worry you'll have a crush in no time". yeah. one or the first people i told. he is gay as well so i thought you know, he would get it . but no. no . WHY DOES NOBODY BELIVE ME 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted July 7 Share Posted July 7 20 hours ago, icecat said: oh my goodness . well so i sort of like.. well i wouldn't say came out but yeah that (never really liked the whole thing of like.. coming out and stuff ) to my cousin as as like aro/ace possibley, and the thing is he didn't believe me. he said and i quote "thats really rare don't worry you'll have a crush in no time". yeah. one or the first people i told. he is gay as well so i thought you know, he would get it . but no. no . WHY DOES NOBODY BELIVE ME It can be super frustrating as an aro/ace person when everyone is telling you you'll get a crush eventually. Just know that if something feels uncomfortable to you, don't do it. If you feel like you are aro/ace, I support you ❤️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted July 7 Author Share Posted July 7 54 minutes ago, Stranger said: It can be super frustrating as an aro/ace person when everyone is telling you you'll get a crush eventually. Just know that if something feels uncomfortable to you, don't do it. If you feel like you are aro/ace, I support you ❤️ thanks so much. you are one of the first people to like.. belive me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted July 14 Author Share Posted July 14 has anyone heard form loxFeaf lately ?? also im about to go on a 13 hor plane ride 😢 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted July 21 Author Share Posted July 21 welp i feel like dying at this point because my sisters old clothes didnt fit me but they fit her and she's 2 years older than me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted July 23 Share Posted July 23 On 7/21/2024 at 5:01 AM, icecat said: welp i feel like dying at this point because my sisters old clothes didnt fit me but they fit her and she's 2 years older than me Age doesn't necessarily factor into stuff like this, and considering its literally only two years, it factors even less. Trust me, growth wise two years can be a huge amount, or basically nothing (talking from experience I've been at almost the same height for 2 years now). Also people can just have different body types, and its still healthy. Please remember you're beautiful don't compare yourself to others ❤️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted July 25 Author Share Posted July 25 thanks so much for allways being so nice @Stranger u have allways made such nice posts when im feeling sad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted July 25 Share Posted July 25 1 hour ago, icecat said: thanks so much for allways being so nice @Stranger u have allways made such nice posts when im feeling sad No worries, I'm glad that I can help you out in some way :D. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted July 27 Author Share Posted July 27 not my parents saying i cant have dinner unless i hug them 💀 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted July 27 Author Share Posted July 27 it wont let me have it as my pfp 😭 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted August 1 Author Share Posted August 1 On 7/28/2024 at 8:53 AM, icecat said: not my parents saying i cant have dinner unless i hug them 💀 update : i did end up getting dinner btw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted August 10 Author Share Posted August 10 well i havebt been alive in a while so hiii Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted August 24 Author Share Posted August 24 hi ppl ive been having a really hard time living right now my social aspect is just gone and i dont really know what to do any tips on surviving 8th grade with anxiety and slight depression ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted August 25 Share Posted August 25 19 hours ago, icecat said: hi ppl ive been having a really hard time living right now my social aspect is just gone and i dont really know what to do any tips on surviving 8th grade with anxiety and slight depression ? I understand what it's like to just have zero friends, honestly it really sucks and there's not much you can do about it if you have a small class. The only reason I have friends now is because me and my friends were all bullied by the rest of the class at the start of secondary school (and still are lmao) , and all just kind of gravitated towards each other tbh. Honestly just try and take school as less serious as possible. What l I did was i confined everything bad that happened to me to the school building, and when I got home I tried to distance myself from my school life. Of course it doesn't always work and this has its own problems, but I think in the long term it helped me realise how people treat me only affects me, not them, and the more I worry and be upset over it, the more they win yk? They only think of me at school, as something to laugh at and make fun of, and they forget about me at home, while at home I'm worrying over how they treat me. People who treat you badly are not worth crying over tbh, when you realise how little they see you as. It's hard and it took me a while, and I'm still not a 100% at it, but I've managed to distance myself from how those people treat me, and it's helped me enjoy my home life if not my school life more. And with friends, please know that it's better off to have no friends than bad friends. There was one guy in our friend group at the start who we hung around with because I guess we thought if our group was bigger, it was less likely for us to be singled out as the weird kids (that didn't work). Well this guy was incredibly toxic, and said a lot of stuff about my mostly female friend group (including myself idk if I'm a girl or not 😭) that I can't repeat here. We cut him off after about a year I think, and it was a good decision to make. Obviously drama still happens in the friend group, and some people are closer to each other than others, but please don't settle for friends who are toxic or treat you terrible in the hopes you will be less alone. As a person you deserve better. Sorry for the essay, and ofc I don't know exactly what you're going through but just know that it does get better, it just takes time. Ask for help if you need it, going to therapy really helped me out, so I'd totally recommend it if you need it. If you need to talk to someone about something serious, or just silly stuff like interests or whatever, I'm here ❤️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted August 25 Share Posted August 25 6 minutes ago, Stranger said: I understand what it's like to just have zero friends, honestly it really sucks and there's not much you can do about it if you have a small class. The only reason I have friends now is because me and my friends were all bullied by the rest of the class at the start of secondary school (and still are lmao) , and all just kind of gravitated towards each other tbh. Honestly just try and take school as less serious as possible. What l I did was i confined everything bad that happened to me to the school building, and when I got home I tried to distance myself from my school life. Of course it doesn't always work and this has its own problems, but I think in the long term it helped me realise how people treat me only affects me, not them, and the more I worry and be upset over it, the more they win yk? They only think of me at school, as something to laugh at and make fun of, and they forget about me at home, while at home I'm worrying over how they treat me. People who treat you badly are not worth crying over tbh, when you realise how little they see you as. It's hard and it took me a while, and I'm still not a 100% at it, but I've managed to distance myself from how those people treat me, and it's helped me enjoy my home life if not my school life more. And with friends, please know that it's better off to have no friends than bad friends. There was one guy in our friend group at the start who we hung around with because I guess we thought if our group was bigger, it was less likely for us to be singled out as the weird kids (that didn't work). Well this guy was incredibly toxic, and said a lot of stuff about my mostly female friend group (including myself idk if I'm a girl or not 😭) that I can't repeat here. We cut him off after about a year I think, and it was a good decision to make. Obviously drama still happens in the friend group, and some people are closer to each other than others, but please don't settle for friends who are toxic or treat you terrible in the hopes you will be less alone. As a person you deserve better. Sorry for the essay, and ofc I don't know exactly what you're going through but just know that it does get better, it just takes time. Ask for help if you need it, going to therapy really helped me out, so I'd totally recommend it if you need it. If you need to talk to someone about something serious, or just silly stuff like interests or whatever, I'm here ❤️ Also I guess just existing in online spaces where you feel safe can help a lot as well, I expressed myself a lot through writing during probably the worst part of my life (I was about three quarters way through the deadly isle, my playthrough back then). Find a space where you feel like you can talk about whatever you want, and not feel like you're being judged or ignored. For me that was the forums, but understandably theyre kind of dead now so maybe it will be different for you :). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted September 3 Author Share Posted September 3 On 8/25/2024 at 10:45 AM, Stranger said: I understand what it's like to just have zero friends, honestly it really sucks and there's not much you can do about it if you have a small class. The only reason I have friends now is because me and my friends were all bullied by the rest of the class at the start of secondary school (and still are lmao) , and all just kind of gravitated towards each other tbh. Honestly just try and take school as less serious as possible. What l I did was i confined everything bad that happened to me to the school building, and when I got home I tried to distance myself from my school life. Of course it doesn't always work and this has its own problems, but I think in the long term it helped me realise how people treat me only affects me, not them, and the more I worry and be upset over it, the more they win yk? They only think of me at school, as something to laugh at and make fun of, and they forget about me at home, while at home I'm worrying over how they treat me. People who treat you badly are not worth crying over tbh, when you realise how little they see you as. It's hard and it took me a while, and I'm still not a 100% at it, but I've managed to distance myself from how those people treat me, and it's helped me enjoy my home life if not my school life more. And with friends, please know that it's better off to have no friends than bad friends. There was one guy in our friend group at the start who we hung around with because I guess we thought if our group was bigger, it was less likely for us to be singled out as the weird kids (that didn't work). Well this guy was incredibly toxic, and said a lot of stuff about my mostly female friend group (including myself idk if I'm a girl or not 😭) that I can't repeat here. We cut him off after about a year I think, and it was a good decision to make. Obviously drama still happens in the friend group, and some people are closer to each other than others, but please don't settle for friends who are toxic or treat you terrible in the hopes you will be less alone. As a person you deserve better. Sorry for the essay, and ofc I don't know exactly what you're going through but just know that it does get better, it just takes time. Ask for help if you need it, going to therapy really helped me out, so I'd totally recommend it if you need it. If you need to talk to someone about something serious, or just silly stuff like interests or whatever, I'm here ❤️ after you wrote this i was ok well have ike 3 frens but then some of them left me and are mad at me so i only have like 1 real friend so . sadness forevernow lol. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tornado 3.0 Posted September 3 Share Posted September 3 Oh hey it’s another new member from when I was gone. Hello! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted September 7 Author Share Posted September 7 helklloooo ive been here for what 2 years? On 9/4/2024 at 5:51 AM, Tornado 3.0 said: Oh hey it’s another new member from when I was gone. Hello! im also trash at spelling bc i turned off autocorrect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted September 8 Share Posted September 8 7 hours ago, icecat said: helklloooo ive been here for what 2 years? im also trash at spelling bc i turned off autocorrect Tornado has been gone for longer than 2 years I think, they've only recently gotten back to the forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted September 8 Author Share Posted September 8 12 hours ago, Stranger said: Tornado has been gone for longer than 2 years I think, they've only recently gotten back to the forums thats coool my forum use has been dpleating but im still here ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted September 19 Author Share Posted September 19 hi ppl! if anyone was wprried im much better now <3. im still kinda depressed but life is getting betetr. im definately moving to ane wschool and i just got my hair dyed for the first time yoday :). i havent been having such bad thought and ive been getting into new thing (yt specifically) thanks for allways being here and having my back this last year and a bit :3 you ppl are amazing and awsome tysm -icecats 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
icecat Posted September 19 Author Share Posted September 19 youtube channel ??! :0 (mostly myct animation content) (vid is the only link i could get :(... press n the channel if u wanna see other stuff i've made.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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