Minecraft Realm V2

[Pancake]

Just now, SilverHowl said:

BUT PEOPLE DIDN’T WANT YOU TO LEAVE! THEY WANTED YOU TO CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOUR MCMSKGJEJSJJSIS tHaTs what I was trying to help with!!

They said I could be the villain, and then sail they didn’t want me to be the villain, so I left so someone cold be a better villain

[Impy10]

3 minutes ago, Zixvir said:

why?

Just curios.

This is so terrible.

I hate this.

This makes me feel terrible

I'm sick of this stupid and hostile drama

[Pancake]

1 minute ago, SilverHowl said:

Wh... since when? I guess what they said was a mistake or misunderstandable? Which is why people need to work on adding specific details to not confuse the other party, but if this is upsetting people, take it into consideration to stop.

I don’t know what they want anymore, I try to do what they want and they tell me to stop,

I just can’t.

[Zixvir]

2 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

They said I could be the villain, and then sail they didn’t want me to be the villain, so I left so someone cold be a better villain

uhhh...

I think we meant in a different way,

but you didn't understand.

So everything went wrong.

You should watch grians video on hermitcraft.

because he talks about gentlemans rules.

not just because it's hermitcraft.

basically.

Gentlemans rules is basically the only thing that applies.

1 minute ago, Impy10 said:

This is so terrible.

I hate this.

This makes me feel terrible

I'm sick of this stupid and hostile drama

don't worry!

I think it's coming to an end.

You should wait until posts become less frequent.

[Zixvir]

2 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

I don’t know what they want anymore, I try to do what they want and they tell me to stop,

I just can’t.

it seems that you just don't understand.

I'll try to make you understand.

basically, instead  of normal rules, we have gentlemans rules.

done.

period.

That is LITTERALLY, all it is.

You have those to follow.

Think about others.

[Pancake]

1 minute ago, Zixvir said:

it seems that you just don't understand.

I'll try to make you understand.

basically, instead  of normal rules, we have gentlemans rules.

done.

period.

That is LITTERALLY, all it is.

You have those to follow.

Think about others.

Well no everyone watched him.

i don’t know what that is

[Impy10]

I don't care anymore

I'm leaving

If I want to come back, I'll just ask

[Zixvir]

Just now, SilverHowl said:

I need to say something about Minecraft... it sends a toxic vibe more than what it’s concept it’s doing, and that’s why I’ve stayed away from Minecraft, I’ve never played it, and probably never will, it’s destroying friendships and making people toxic, which in my eyes is never supposed to be the intention of Minecraft.... or games like Undertale.... it’s horrific.

ahhh. You've been looking in the wrong places.

Undertale!?

I only see toxicicty in minecraft.

If you want to see wholesome minecraft, watch hermitcraft.

(don't read the comments, there aren't that many toxic comments, but there are still a few.)

and for wholesome undertale, watch merg.

I haven't ever read comments on merg.

[MATTRESS]

2 minutes ago, SilverHowl said:

Stop playing the game, just.. just stop I feel like it’s the only way to resolve all this.

sorry that we brought you into this-

[Pancake]

Okay,

I know I’ve caused a lot of harm and problems and you all probably can’t forgive me so I’ve decided to fix my mistakes and then leave the server, so you guys don’t have to fix my mistakes

:]

[Pancake]

1 minute ago, Pancrack said:

Okay,

I know I’ve caused a lot of harm and problems and you all probably can’t forgive me so I’ve decided to fix my mistakes and then leave the server, so you guys don’t have to fix my mistakes

:]

Oh

i guess all my mistakes have already been fixed

well, it was nice playing with you guys

:]

[Zixvir]

2 minutes ago, SilverHowl said:

Stop playing the game, just.. just stop I feel like it’s the only way to resolve all this.

*sigh*

you are not confident!

You need to actually do something.

I was learning about martin luther king junior yesterday.

I learned that to spark change, you need to make things uncomfortable enough that people TRY, to understand.

I myself need motivation to do things, so it makes sense.

You can help, maybe you help in a different way.

Though you are helping alot already.

It's my realm.

My burdern

You don't have to do anything.

2 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Well no everyone watched him.

i don’t know what that is

OHHHHHHHHH...

You don't know gentlemans rules.

Uhhh.

It's basically a more complex version of think before you do.

and this is minecraft, so it's much easier, you have to plan things.

Usually, at least.

In THIS case, you had stuff lying around.

But even then, I bet you had to get flint.  I don't think you had any lying around.

You should just watch the video up to that point.

Or if you want, I can find when he talks about it.

So you will have a better understanding than what I think I can do.

If you understand, then you can just tell me.

[Pancake]

5 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Oh

i guess all my mistakes have already been fixed

well, it was nice playing with you guys

:]

I left my stuff in a chest in the extra storage room

And I made a gravestone, but you can take that out if it’s in the way

[Pancake]

2 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

I left my stuff in a chest in the extra storage room

And I made a gravestone, but you can take that out if it’s in the way

Also please take care of my puppy

[MATTRESS]

uh, that was... eventful.

i don't know what to say 

[Zixvir]

8 minutes ago, SilverHowl said:

It’s mainly here that concerns me.. again, I just wanna get off the forums too, I am already under stress from today, and I will only accept Discord messages.

you seem to be pannicking calmly, to try and resolve this problem,

if i'm wrong, then it just means that I don't have a very good understanding here.

But if you want to help, then try to calm down first, if it's because of your thing, then just wait for that to go away.

6 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Okay,

I know I’ve caused a lot of harm and problems and you all probably can’t forgive me so I’ve decided to fix my mistakes and then leave the server, so you guys don’t have to fix my mistakes

:]

I forgive you, I just want you to understand what I'm saying first.

3 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Oh

i guess all my mistakes have already been fixed

well, it was nice playing with you guys

:]

You don't have to leave.

I just want to understand.

Silver was right when (s)he said that this will afect you irl.

Which is why I want you to understand first.

Am I teaching?

Meh, it's my responsibility, but only because I accepted it, It's only the standered for having a responsibility.

2 minutes ago, SilverHowl said:

I want to leave it up to our victims here to resolve this, I won’t have part in it, I’ve only tried to lend a paw for something over a video game, because yeah, I get what it’s like to just have fun with people and getting angry while playing, it’s apart of gaming nature.. the last thing I need is an entire tragedy over this.

Don't worry, I think I know how to apply democracy to this, I'm pretty sure that no tragady will happen.

You don't have to do anything, help IS appreciated, but it seems like you're biting off more than you can chew.

This feels like a tv show, litterally everything is set up correctly, #life is a tv show(jk lol, things like this always happen.)

[Pancake]

3 minutes ago, Zixvir said:

I forgive you, I just want you to understand what I'm saying first.

You don't have to leave.

I just want to understand.

Silver was right when (s)he said that this will afect you irl.

Which is why I want you to understand first.

Am I teaching?

Meh, it's my responsibility, but only because I accepted it, It's only the standered for having a responsibility.

Then what do you want me to do

I’m trying to understand

[Pancake]

Ghostcake time

[Zixvir]

17 minutes ago, SilverHowl said:

This is exactly what I don't need. Thank you.

sorry, I should have said more about you doing so much.

You really did, thank you, what I'm trying to say is that, since you don't seem to have much experience, don't hurt yourself, I don't want you to feel like it's your fault, becuase it isn't. You really did do alot, so don't feel like you have to do more.

And thank you everyone else too.

Everyone has done so much.

14 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Also please take care of my puppy

you don't have to leave, but I suppose you know that already. ( as I already said, don't stress yourself out over what you think is your reputation.) I don't really have much of an idea of what I'm talking about, but I feel like I'm doing things right.

11 minutes ago, Polly said:

uh, that was... eventful.

i don't know what to say 

me neither, but uhhh...

I feel like I should give a speech.

Hmmm... 

well, uhh, what I've been saying is relax, but sometimes help is needed, but if you feel stressed at all, then call for someone else to help, if you're stressed, then you won't really think as much, a calm mind is what helps change, work correctly, if  you're stressed, you might make bad choices. Of course, I am a devils advocate, I give instructions, but don't really know how to follow them, remember, we are a community.

2 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Then what do you want me to do

I’m trying to understand

what I would say if I was going along with that speech was that that's what we're gonna figure out together, but really, I don't really know how to explain to you how gentlemans rules work, but I do know one thing, it's not an actual rulebook.

I need help to explain, does anyone know much about this?

[Zixvir]

8 minutes ago, Pancrack said:

Ghostcake time

???????????????

is it minecraft?

[MT26 - A Nicheling]

Stop fighting and making others feel bad! You guys are making people quit.
*gets that 2019 discussion flashbacks*

I had to learn this the bad way, please stop.

[MATTRESS]

2 minutes ago, A Nicheling said:

Stop fighting and making others feel bad! You guys are making people quit.
*gets that 2019 discussion flashbacks*

I had to learn this the bad way, please stop.

the fight is over, do not bring it up

[MT26 - A Nicheling]

Good that it’s over

[Sky]

Sorry I got here late. Looks likes things have pretty much solved themselves.

I recommend putting in place a set of rules for the server (maybe make a board of signs at spawn?)--even if it's unlikely that anyone will break them (again), it will be a helpful reminder. And you can set some consequences too-- some things may be okay with a warning for first offenses, but temporary bans for others. For example, griefing (what Pancake did) could earn a week's ban from the server, along with more severe consequences if it happens again. Along with that would be an apology, and if possible a reconstruction by Pancake of the destroyed build, using their own materials. (If not, someone can go into creative and replace it.)

As an example-- once upon a time, I joined a Minecraft server. When I started off a staff member introduced me to the server. They actually went invisible and watched me, which I didn't know. I took someone's crops thinking "oh, I'll replace them, they'll grow back before they ever see it." I got a ban from the server, since I broke a rule so quickly. (I probably would have had less severe consequences if I'd been playing for a while and was more trusted.) (I cried for like 20 min lol) However, I was able to make a ban appeal on their forums, telling them that I was sorry, understood what was wrong, and would never do that again. They approved my appeal and I was able to come back in a week (it took them a while to get around to my appeal).

P.S. If another big fight happens, I recommend @ing Philo too. I'm online more and will help if I can, but I'm not very good at helping in big (active) fights like this one. Philo also actually knows what to do

[Pancake]

Coming on

@Polly u wanna come too?