CanDLinkZz Posted October 14, 2020 Posted October 14, 2020 15 hours ago, ThisBeanIsCute said: help i dont know my gender aaa neither do i really, frend.
Lilytuft Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Ok, since it's the last day of pride month, I'm coming out On 4/15/2020 at 7:26 PM, Living in a bucket said: I might be ace or even aro but I'm not sure, since I've never really felt the need to figure that stuff out. Maybe I'm just a late bloomer, since I have the mental capacity of a six year old who's mildly dead inside. Sooo... I was right. I'm definitely ace. I don't have the romantic attraction part figured out yet, but it's definitely not a normal amount since I'm not sure if I've ever had a crush. Also weirdly enough I also seem to experience little to no aestethic attraction when it comes to humans. Like I can recognize that someone is conventionally beautiful but I rarely get any sort of pleasure from staring at a human and would rather just be looking at anything else I'm also taking archery lessons, which means I might become an arrow-ace, which will be helpful in invading Danmark On 4/15/2020 at 7:28 PM, Sky said: I may be the only cis, straight person here... help I'm sorry Sky, you're the token straight person. It's okay though, we still love you also there's nothing wrong with being cis and straight and you shouldn't feel bad for it because you're still an unique person in many other ways 4
polly Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 9 minutes ago, Living in a bucket said: Ok, since it's the last day of pride month, I'm coming out Sooo... I was right. I'm definitely ace. I don't have the romantic attraction part figured out yet, but it's definitely not a normal amount since I'm not sure if I've ever had a crush. Also weirdly enough I also seem to experience little to no aestethic attraction when it comes to humans. Like I can recognize that someone is conventionally beautiful but I rarely get any sort of pleasure from staring at a human and would rather just be looking at anything else I'm also taking archery lessons, which means I might become an arrow-ace, which will be helpful in invading Danmark I'm sorry Sky, you're the token straight person. It's okay though, we still love you also there's nothing wrong with being cis and straight and you shouldn't feel bad for it because you're still an unique person in many other ways YOOOOOOO WELCOME TO THE CLUB 1
Katumai Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 1 hour ago, Living in a bucket said: Ok, since it's the last day of pride month, I'm coming out Sooo... I was right. I'm definitely ace. I don't have the romantic attraction part figured out yet, but it's definitely not a normal amount since I'm not sure if I've ever had a crush. Also weirdly enough I also seem to experience little to no aestethic attraction when it comes to humans. Like I can recognize that someone is conventionally beautiful but I rarely get any sort of pleasure from staring at a human and would rather just be looking at anything else I'm also taking archery lessons, which means I might become an arrow-ace, which will be helpful in invading Danmark I'm sorry Sky, you're the token straight person. It's okay though, we still love you also there's nothing wrong with being cis and straight and you shouldn't feel bad for it because you're still an unique person in many other ways YOOO IM PROUD OF YOU!! 1
Katumai Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 gonna come out for the 500th time just to keep things clear im a lesbian somewhere on the asexual spectrum (as in sexual attraction, i very much feel romantic attraction) but honestly ive just given up on gender at this point. like ive always preferred male terms (sir/mr instead of maam/miss etc) but if someone calls me 'she' i am completely okay with that, i just use he/him most of the time because ive gotten so used to it (i actually use she/her the most irl but he/him the most online) i wear suits to formal gatherings though and its very funny to watch people look at me like they've never seen someone whos not a cis man in a suit before idk man i just love women. besides the few times i'll look at a fictional man and go 'hmmm 😳' and its usually one with nice eyelashes 3
Pancake Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 2 hours ago, Living in a bucket said: Ok, since it's the last day of pride month, I'm coming out Sooo... I was right. I'm definitely ace. I don't have the romantic attraction part figured out yet, but it's definitely not a normal amount since I'm not sure if I've ever had a crush. Also weirdly enough I also seem to experience little to no aestethic attraction when it comes to humans. Like I can recognize that someone is conventionally beautiful but I rarely get any sort of pleasure from staring at a human and would rather just be looking at anything else I'm also taking archery lessons, which means I might become an arrow-ace, which will be helpful in invading Danmark I'm sorry Sky, you're the token straight person. It's okay though, we still love you also there's nothing wrong with being cis and straight and you shouldn't feel bad for it because you're still an unique person in many other ways LETS GOOOOOOOOO 1
His Highness Lord Hades Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 I should also come out, I guess. I have recently figured out that im bi, and haven't really thought about gender much. That's really all. I don't know what to say anymore. 3
TundraKitsune Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 Hey, why not? So, I'm aromantic/asexual Also non-binary of some flavour Demigirl seems to work alright Agender could work though, idk Still very much cool with she/her though 2 1
His Highness Lord Hades Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 4 minutes ago, TundraKitsune said: Hey, why not? So, I'm aromantic/asexual Also non-binary of some flavour Demigirl seems to work alright Agender could work though, idk Still very much cool with she/her though YAY TUNDRA 1
His Highness Lord Hades Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 Just now, OldJumpscare said: YAY TUNDRA IVE NEVER BEEN AROUND FOR MOST PEOPLES HERE COMING OUT SO 1
Your_local_l0ser Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 WELL I AM MANY THINGS BUT I am trans and bi with a preference of men :DD uh and sort of demisexual i think idk but yea :DD BUT STILL VERY MUCH GAY 2
cookie Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 7 hours ago, Living in a bucket said: Ok, since it's the last day of pride month, I'm coming out Sooo... I was right. I'm definitely ace. I don't have the romantic attraction part figured out yet, but it's definitely not a normal amount since I'm not sure if I've ever had a crush. Also weirdly enough I also seem to experience little to no aestethic attraction when it comes to humans. Like I can recognize that someone is conventionally beautiful but I rarely get any sort of pleasure from staring at a human and would rather just be looking at anything else I'm also taking archery lessons, which means I might become an arrow-ace, which will be helpful in invading Danmark I'm sorry Sky, you're the token straight person. It's okay though, we still love you also there's nothing wrong with being cis and straight and you shouldn't feel bad for it because you're still an unique person in many other ways YOO SAME I THINK ALSO IM AGENDER AND I LOVE GIRLS 👍 2
cookie Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 aww i was looking through this thread hoping baby me came in like "im a cis girl but idk who i like!" or something like that and i could laugh at them 2 1
F00lz the person Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 This topic has been brought to my attention, and therefore I'm telling the story of me finding myself until now, ahem. I started out as a straight female, about when i was 7 I thought "mmm girls", then a week later "oh- I have a crush on a boy and a girl." then I thought, "ew boys." then when i was 8, "screw gender, I am a them. And i don't care the gender or pronouns just someone date me, ill date more than one person too." then when I was 10 I thought "am man, still date anyone and multiple." and then i thought that for awhile until I came across Xenogender and Neopronouns, earlier this year I was he/they/ey and now it's he/static (and others) there are so many other Xenogenders that I identify with (like cathender, clowngender, ghostgender, mistgender, etc) I'm finding new pronouns everyday,,, soon I'll have all the pronouns /j 2
F00lz the person Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 Just now, vesper staticself said: This topic has been brought to my attention, and therefore I'm telling the story of me finding myself until now, ahem. I started out as a straight female, about when i was 7 I thought "mmm girls", then a week later "oh- I have a crush on a boy and a girl." then I thought, "ew boys." then when i was 8, "screw gender, I am a them. And i don't care the gender or pronouns just someone date me, ill date more than one person too." then when I was 10 I thought "am man, still date anyone and multiple." and then i thought that for awhile until I came across Xenogender and Neopronouns, earlier this year I was he/they/ey and now it's he/static (and others) there are so many other Xenogenders that I identify with (like cathender, clowngender, ghostgender, mistgender, etc) I'm finding new pronouns everyday,,, soon I'll have all the pronouns /j I'm also gay, still polyamours though 1
polly Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 everyone already knows but guess ill come out lmao im nonbinary agender xenogender ace demi lesbian :)) 1
polly Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 3 minutes ago, polly said: everyone already knows but guess ill come out lmao im nonbinary agender xenogender ace demi lesbian :)) pronounfluid and ambimorous too 1
His Highness Lord Hades Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 Just now, polly said: pronounfluid and ambimorous too Wow. I think I'm basic.
Poo Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 45 minutes ago, Chinese Donut said: Wow. I think I'm basic. same
eebee Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 i guess im nonbinary? i dont really care about what gender im called please tell me if this is actually another lgbt thing
Tilly Posted July 1, 2022 Posted July 1, 2022 Gender apathy/gender apathetic may be a relevant label to look into for that? As opposed to, say, agender, which carries more of an active "nope, not got/don't want one of those gender things" vibe to it, imo, but could also be a term to consider/use when looking for other people with similar feelings and experiences.
jaxpsylla Posted July 3, 2022 Author Posted July 3, 2022 On 6/30/2022 at 4:13 PM, Living in a bucket said: Ok, since it's the last day of pride month, I'm coming out Sooo... I was right. I'm definitely ace. I don't have the romantic attraction part figured out yet, but it's definitely not a normal amount since I'm not sure if I've ever had a crush. Also weirdly enough I also seem to experience little to no aestethic attraction when it comes to humans. Like I can recognize that someone is conventionally beautiful but I rarely get any sort of pleasure from staring at a human and would rather just be looking at anything else I'm also taking archery lessons, which means I might become an arrow-ace, which will be helpful in invading Danmark I'm sorry Sky, you're the token straight person. It's okay though, we still love you also there's nothing wrong with being cis and straight and you shouldn't feel bad for it because you're still an unique person in many other ways That's awesome! I'm glad people came back to this thread to talk about their identities and come out, I'm proud of all of you! As for the quote above, have you looked into demi-romantic? I'm asexual as well but have trouble finding romantic attraction, (even though I am dating someone) and I figured demi-romantic works for me! There's also terms like gray-romantic that might work? It's totally okay to experiment, and romantic/sexual attraction is not for everyone. Happy late Pride month! 1
jaxpsylla Posted July 3, 2022 Author Posted July 3, 2022 I'd also like to say that my identities have changed since I made this topic! I am now non-binary (but still transmasc), gay, asexual, and my pronouns are he/ey/ve! 1
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