jaxpolly Posted January 20 Author Posted January 20 i should say i have definitely changed over the years. in 2016 i was bi, then in 2017 i was a lesbian, then i discovered i was transgender and identified as pan/trans. since then i have gone through pan, gay, pan again, gay again, bi, and now... im back to lesbian. im still trans, just not a trans guy (transmasc nonbinary) so thats my timeline. the only consistent thing about my identity is being asexual LOL
StrangerPolly Posted January 20 Posted January 20 4 hours ago, jaxpsylla said: i should say i have definitely changed over the years. in 2016 i was bi, then in 2017 i was a lesbian, then i discovered i was transgender and identified as pan/trans. since then i have gone through pan, gay, pan again, gay again, bi, and now... im back to lesbian. im still trans, just not a trans guy (transmasc nonbinary) so thats my timeline. the only consistent thing about my identity is being asexual LOL 5 hours ago, icecat said: Little pronoun update, started feelings lg like I might be she/they or they/ them, still supe confuse and kinda wanna talk abt it tbh. The bi to trans pipeline is real then, I think back in 2021/2022 I'm like 99% sure I thought I was bi, then a phase of being lesbian, then I decided I was asexual, and now I'm like half sure I'm a trans possibly gay asexual dude??? Anyway to say I am confused is an understatement, some ppl make it out like you have to know by like 15 or whatever, but some ppl figure it out in their early twenties and that's ok too, the most important thing is you're feeling comfortable in who you are 2
jaxpolly Posted January 20 Author Posted January 20 10 hours ago, Stranger said: The bi to trans pipeline is real then, I think back in 2021/2022 I'm like 99% sure I thought I was bi, then a phase of being lesbian, then I decided I was asexual, and now I'm like half sure I'm a trans possibly gay asexual dude??? Anyway to say I am confused is an understatement, some ppl make it out like you have to know by like 15 or whatever, but some ppl figure it out in their early twenties and that's ok too, the most important thing is you're feeling comfortable in who you are dude ive seen people in their SIXTIES figure out their identity. it can literally take your whole life time !! and thats ok!!!
Lilytuft Posted January 21 Posted January 21 On 10/3/2024 at 7:40 AM, icecat said: also other aro aces do u ever worry about likeing people but like its genuine fear. like idek but it scares me to think abt ? I've had that a few times, yeah. Not sure why 2
icecatcakefrogpolly Posted January 21 Posted January 21 On 1/19/2025 at 9:59 PM, jaxpsylla said: being confused about your identity is totally normal, and the best way to figure things out is to try out labels, pronouns, etc. find what feels most comfortable through experimenting, even if its just a phase or not permanent. you can always change back if you want to! Bro I wish I could but like, first of all there is one internalize homophobic Brian worm who is telling me it’s a phase and that I just lying and also I don’t feel safe doing that for reasoning of parents and also whee I live I would love to tho:( 😭 1
StrangerPolly Posted January 21 Posted January 21 5 hours ago, icecat said: Bro I wish I could but like, first of all there is one internalize homophobic Brian worm who is telling me it’s a phase and that I just lying and also I don’t feel safe doing that for reasoning of parents and also whee I live I would love to tho:( 😭 The place where I live and my family also stops me from using my pronouns irl ik how you feel bro 😭 Maybe with friends, but I don't do that myself so lmao 1 1
Andromedapolly Posted January 21 Posted January 21 3 hours ago, Stranger said: The place where I live and my family also stops me from using my pronouns irl ik how you feel bro 😭 Maybe with friends, but I don't do that myself so lmao same (sorta), i want to put my other pronouns (besides she/her) on my discord profile but i have my brother added on there and he would probably bully me for using neos- 1 2
jaxpolly Posted January 21 Author Posted January 21 9 hours ago, icecat said: Bro I wish I could but like, first of all there is one internalize homophobic Brian worm who is telling me it’s a phase and that I just lying and also I don’t feel safe doing that for reasoning of parents and also whee I live I would love to tho:( 😭 this is totally understandable. im sorry so many of you live in places where you cant feel safe about your identity. i live in texas so i have a similar issue though as an adult i have a much easier time getting away with it. i wish the best to all of you < 3 1
ChickfilAlover Posted January 31 Posted January 31 im bigender and bisexual . lots of bi's here 2 1 1
Adam the Second - origami Posted February 1 Posted February 1 3 hours ago, ChickfilAlover said: im bigender and bisexual . lots of bi's here 🤝 bisexual squad 1
BirbMonstwo Posted February 1 Posted February 1 5 hours ago, FireKai said: 😋🤤 What does this mean I’m a little bit scared
StrangerPolly Posted February 1 Posted February 1 13 hours ago, BirbMonstwo said: What does this mean I’m a little bit scared Ayo 💀 1
jaxpolly Posted February 1 Author Posted February 1 18 hours ago, BirbMonstwo said: What does this mean I’m a little bit scared im like confident this person is a little kid because their whole profile is just replies of the same vein 4
Seasick Posted February 2 Posted February 2 Help I never updated here????? Transmasc voidgender yippee 1
kris Posted February 2 Posted February 2 ummm genderqueer asexual arospec ..?? i lost my sexuality and gender in the war (i stopped caring so much) 3
GreenPolly Posted February 2 Posted February 2 oooo I should update... Agender (she/they/he), Pan, aroacespec, probably polyamorus ? 2
BirbPolly Posted February 2 Posted February 2 Uhhh this thread seems to revive once in a while so I'm going to talk about me! For sexuality I'm fully confident in the fact that I'm a lesbian. (The idea of dating a man makes me uncomfortable) As for gender I think I'll just remain unlabelled. Because there's like a bajillion 'girl but not fully' terms (demigirl, paragirl, girlflux, ect) that all fit me at once but also none at all 1
StrangerPolly Posted February 2 Posted February 2 1 hour ago, FireKai said: WHY ARE U IN THIS? wait who are you talking to 💀
jaxpolly Posted February 3 Author Posted February 3 4 hours ago, FireKai said: WHY ARE U IN THIS? are you lost 1
GHOSTPOLLY Posted February 21 Posted February 21 Uhhh debating on using they/he pronouns, probably will try. Also idk what happened to my sexuality, all I really know is that I'm somewhere on the aro-ace spectrum, the rest is just a mystery lol 3 1
StrangerPolly Posted February 21 Posted February 21 Just now, jaxpsylla said: AROACE SUPREMACY YEAHHHHHH IM HALF HERE I THINK YEAHH 3 1
Sewer_water_drinker Posted March 8 Posted March 8 On 4/25/2023 at 6:12 PM, cedarwhisperplaysniche said: okay! im a (deep-ish breath) i use she/her/fur/purr,im aroace, panplatonic, and a cisfemale. there we go. also, im confused, what is it called if you are cis, but use neopronouns??? i mainly use she/her though. so yeah thAT WAS ALOT Hey this is future cedar um I was so wrong lmao she/her(they/them is okay ig) lesbian ace now! 2
Katumai Posted March 9 Posted March 9 9 hours ago, Sewer_water_drinker said: Hey this is future cedar um I was so wrong lmao she/her(they/them is okay ig) lesbian ace now! lesbian ace gang 🤝 1
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