Stranger Posted January 20, 2025 Posted January 20, 2025 4 hours ago, jaxpsylla said: i should say i have definitely changed over the years. in 2016 i was bi, then in 2017 i was a lesbian, then i discovered i was transgender and identified as pan/trans. since then i have gone through pan, gay, pan again, gay again, bi, and now... im back to lesbian. im still trans, just not a trans guy (transmasc nonbinary) so thats my timeline. the only consistent thing about my identity is being asexual LOL 5 hours ago, icecat said: Little pronoun update, started feelings lg like I might be she/they or they/ them, still supe confuse and kinda wanna talk abt it tbh. The bi to trans pipeline is real then, I think back in 2021/2022 I'm like 99% sure I thought I was bi, then a phase of being lesbian, then I decided I was asexual, and now I'm like half sure I'm a trans possibly gay asexual dude??? Anyway to say I am confused is an understatement, some ppl make it out like you have to know by like 15 or whatever, but some ppl figure it out in their early twenties and that's ok too, the most important thing is you're feeling comfortable in who you are 1
Guest Posted January 20, 2025 Posted January 20, 2025 10 hours ago, Stranger said: The bi to trans pipeline is real then, I think back in 2021/2022 I'm like 99% sure I thought I was bi, then a phase of being lesbian, then I decided I was asexual, and now I'm like half sure I'm a trans possibly gay asexual dude??? Anyway to say I am confused is an understatement, some ppl make it out like you have to know by like 15 or whatever, but some ppl figure it out in their early twenties and that's ok too, the most important thing is you're feeling comfortable in who you are dude ive seen people in their SIXTIES figure out their identity. it can literally take your whole life time !! and thats ok!!!
Hypsi Posted January 21, 2025 Posted January 21, 2025 On 10/3/2024 at 7:40 AM, icecat said: also other aro aces do u ever worry about likeing people but like its genuine fear. like idek but it scares me to think abt ? I've had that a few times, yeah. Not sure why 1
icecat Posted January 21, 2025 Posted January 21, 2025 On 1/19/2025 at 9:59 PM, jaxpsylla said: being confused about your identity is totally normal, and the best way to figure things out is to try out labels, pronouns, etc. find what feels most comfortable through experimenting, even if its just a phase or not permanent. you can always change back if you want to! Bro I wish I could but like, first of all there is one internalize homophobic Brian worm who is telling me it’s a phase and that I just lying and also I don’t feel safe doing that for reasoning of parents and also whee I live I would love to tho:( 😭
Stranger Posted January 21, 2025 Posted January 21, 2025 5 hours ago, icecat said: Bro I wish I could but like, first of all there is one internalize homophobic Brian worm who is telling me it’s a phase and that I just lying and also I don’t feel safe doing that for reasoning of parents and also whee I live I would love to tho:( 😭 The place where I live and my family also stops me from using my pronouns irl ik how you feel bro 😭 Maybe with friends, but I don't do that myself so lmao 1
Guest Posted January 21, 2025 Posted January 21, 2025 9 hours ago, icecat said: Bro I wish I could but like, first of all there is one internalize homophobic Brian worm who is telling me it’s a phase and that I just lying and also I don’t feel safe doing that for reasoning of parents and also whee I live I would love to tho:( 😭 this is totally understandable. im sorry so many of you live in places where you cant feel safe about your identity. i live in texas so i have a similar issue though as an adult i have a much easier time getting away with it. i wish the best to all of you < 3
3v3ryth1ng.R0tz Posted January 31, 2025 Posted January 31, 2025 im pan + identify as genderfluid as of now
ChickfilAlover Posted January 31, 2025 Posted January 31, 2025 im bigender and bisexual . lots of bi's here 1 1 1
MT26 - A Nicheling Posted February 1, 2025 Posted February 1, 2025 3 hours ago, ChickfilAlover said: im bigender and bisexual . lots of bi's here 🤝 bisexual squad
BirbMonstwo Posted February 1, 2025 Posted February 1, 2025 5 hours ago, FireKai said: 😋🤤 What does this mean I’m a little bit scared
Stranger Posted February 1, 2025 Posted February 1, 2025 13 hours ago, BirbMonstwo said: What does this mean I’m a little bit scared Ayo 💀 1
Guest Posted February 1, 2025 Posted February 1, 2025 18 hours ago, BirbMonstwo said: What does this mean I’m a little bit scared im like confident this person is a little kid because their whole profile is just replies of the same vein
Modiano Posted February 2, 2025 Posted February 2, 2025 Help I never updated here????? Transmasc voidgender yippee
kris Posted February 2, 2025 Posted February 2, 2025 ummm genderqueer asexual arospec ..?? i lost my sexuality and gender in the war (i stopped caring so much) 2
GreenPolly Posted February 2, 2025 Posted February 2, 2025 oooo I should update... Agender (she/they/he), Pan, aroacespec, probably polyamorus ? 1
BirbMonster Posted February 2, 2025 Posted February 2, 2025 Uhhh this thread seems to revive once in a while so I'm going to talk about me! For sexuality I'm fully confident in the fact that I'm a lesbian. (The idea of dating a man makes me uncomfortable) As for gender I think I'll just remain unlabelled. Because there's like a bajillion 'girl but not fully' terms (demigirl, paragirl, girlflux, ect) that all fit me at once but also none at all
Stranger Posted February 2, 2025 Posted February 2, 2025 1 hour ago, FireKai said: WHY ARE U IN THIS? wait who are you talking to 💀
Guest Posted February 3, 2025 Posted February 3, 2025 4 hours ago, FireKai said: WHY ARE U IN THIS? are you lost
GHOSTPOLLY Posted February 21, 2025 Posted February 21, 2025 Uhhh debating on using they/he pronouns, probably will try. Also idk what happened to my sexuality, all I really know is that I'm somewhere on the aro-ace spectrum, the rest is just a mystery lol 2 1
Stranger Posted February 21, 2025 Posted February 21, 2025 Just now, jaxpsylla said: AROACE SUPREMACY YEAHHHHHH IM HALF HERE I THINK YEAHH 2 1
Sewer_water_drinker Posted March 8, 2025 Posted March 8, 2025 On 4/25/2023 at 6:12 PM, cedarwhisperplaysniche said: okay! im a (deep-ish breath) i use she/her/fur/purr,im aroace, panplatonic, and a cisfemale. there we go. also, im confused, what is it called if you are cis, but use neopronouns??? i mainly use she/her though. so yeah thAT WAS ALOT Hey this is future cedar um I was so wrong lmao she/her(they/them is okay ig) lesbian ace now! 1
Katumai Posted March 9, 2025 Posted March 9, 2025 9 hours ago, Sewer_water_drinker said: Hey this is future cedar um I was so wrong lmao she/her(they/them is okay ig) lesbian ace now! lesbian ace gang 🤝
Guest Posted March 9, 2025 Posted March 9, 2025 1 hour ago, Katumai said: lesbian ace gang 🤝 🤝 LESBIAN ACE GANG !! 🤝
Blue_Moon2 Posted March 10, 2025 Posted March 10, 2025 Even tho im straight (im still tyring figure out if im bi) A few of my friends are members tho, One of my girlfriends (not literally) is pan then a friend i know is a Lesbian
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